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Drew Barrymore is letting us in on the holiday traditions she?s building with daughters Olive, 10, and Frankie, eight. One of which is that Drew does not buy her daughters Christmas presents. Instead, she takes the girls on trips for the holiday. While she admits she doesn?t think her daughters, ?love it,? at their current ages, she does think they will hold the memories of their experiences on those adventures more than any toy or trinket they unwrap under the tree.
Drew Barrymores daughters wont be unwrapping presents under the tree come Christmas morning. ETs Nischelle Turner spoke with the 47-year-old host of The Drew Barrymore Show, and she revealed why she doesnt buy Christmas gifts for Frankie, 8, and Olive, 10, the girls she shares with her ex, Will Kopelman.
I always take them on a trip every Christmas. I dont get them presents, which I think at their ages they dont love, but I say, I think well remember the place and the photos and the experience and thats what I want to give you,' she explained. They get plenty of things throughout the year, so Im not like some weird, strict, cold mom whos like, You don?t get any gifts! I just feel like a better gift would be a life memory. Id rather invest [in that than in] a doll house or something. It all evens out and its fine.
[I try] to remember that one holiday wont be probably the same as one 10 years from now, that your life can dramatically change, and new people and new traditions can come into it, she said. I like looking at the holidays through a comedic, realistic lens of, were gonna have a lot of different holiday stories. What one do you want to keep going and build as a tradition? Rather than, This is my tradition and Im stuck in it.'
[From ET via DListed]
The quotes above are from Entertainment Tonight, but Drew also discussed this a little more on her show. Drew?s childhood Christmases were, as she said, confusing, because she was often alone. Her own mother didn?t buy her presents, if she wanted Christmas gifts, she had to use her own money to buy them. I also want to call attention to Drew?s comment, ?they get plenty of things throughout the year.? Drew isn?t trying to make some consumerism is evil point here, she?s just trying to create something for her and the girls. They have a whole other family with their dad and his wife, I?m sure they get presents under that tree. For two divorced parents of means, this a nice way to make two unique celebrations. On that note, Drew said on her show that she realized after she mentioned the trip thing that not everyone can afford to take their kids on trips every year and felt bad bringing it up. She also mentioned that sometimes they just ?get in the car and drive,? for their Christmas trips. But the part I agree with is everyone is coming at the holidays differently and that?s how it should be. Whatever you celebrate or don?t, it should be completely catered to your family or the people you spend them with.
Also, Drew said she did get Olive and Frankie gifts during lockdown when they couldnt travel. But Drew has a point about what we remember. I vaguely remember gifts I got as a kid, but what I really remember is that one I kept asking for and never got. For me it was an Easy Bake Oven. My mom said if I wanted to bake, I could use the big oven. That?s not the point, Mom! And this year we are traveling right before Christmas, which is our Big Gift for everyone this year and it better suffice come Christmas Day. I think it will be fine, my kids are teenagers and getting ready to move out, so we really are in the memory making stage.
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